Wednesday, June 2, 2010 | By: priya dhandapani

~ a decision or is it the destiny?! ~

well, whenever i think 'bout writing my scripts, there are lots that strike my mind...'tis like a clash, each one says, "hey, why don't u write 'bout me?...me?..!"

..the tug-of-war goes on 'nd on, until am able to zero-in on something; ya, finally i make a 'decision' that 'fine, i will write about this! :)

each 'nd everyone of us gotto take decisions at one point or the other ~ simple or complex...leave others, do we not say it to ourselves sometimes, "omg, i shud hv expected it...i cud hv taken a better decision?!"

wen it comes to deciding, we do consider lotz a factors! for instance, say, a dress we wanna buy ~ we cross-check on the colour, design, size, style, cost, our comfort in those clothes, the stores; or the food that we wanna eat ~ the quality, varieties, the hot, cold 'nd the calories factor, ...or anything else for that matter?! we take so much effort to make ourselves feel good by taking the right decisions, don't we? :)

hv u ever thought 'bout this...nothing new that am gonna share about…everything exists here, am jus going over it again!... on one page, we read 'bout people coming up the ladder through sheer hard work 'nd commitment [practically speaking, luck is also a key factor here :D], 'nd realise their dreams; 'nd on the other, we read about people taking a decision to "rest in peace", wen they are unable to realise their dreams! :(

...in both the decisions, 'tis not jus 'bout the individuals...wen its 'U', 'tis not just u...its u, ur family, ur friends, 'nd a lot more are involved here! yes, we are dependent on each other 'nd everything is interconnected! ...the only difference is which one u choose ~ the right or wrong! :D ...being successful will make us smile, while the latter is really disturbing! ...by trying to rest in peace, actually they end up turning to "pieces", shattering everything 'nd everyone around them! ...i may sound rude wen i say, 'tis okay to fail on ur path towards success, but failure gives u the experience, the confidence 'nd the determination to make sure u get wat u want! ...if ur still unsure, re-visit history! :D

...if u fall down...get up, dust urself 'nd go get wat u want! ...how long can the failure be knocking at ur door...even it needs some rest! ;D

in my opinion, therez only one destiny! 'nd quoting this Italian proverb will say it all ~ 'after the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box!' ...u need not choose it, it will choose u wen ur done, 'nd thatz it! ;D

5 comments:

veer said...

Very deep thought on this post ! bravo :)

Entire feel of the blog -very artistic ..cool .

Really appreciate the thought "everything is interconnected! " thats lovely..i hope you can feel and understand these lines..ppl think as individuals not keeping the inter-dependency in the picture ..well done in bringin this up..

and its very motivating to read ..

Cheers,
Veera

priya dhandapani said...

@~ Veera ~ thanks a lot! :)

Unknown said...

good one :)

priya dhandapani said...

@~ Tara ~ :D

priya dhandapani said...

@~ sharadh ~ thanx a lot da! :D

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